Goodbye to a Friend
Posted in arty ponderings on March 15th, 2010 by RicGoodbye to a Friend
Last week was a tough week in a lot of respects, not least of which was the funeral of an old friend of mine, the artist Chris Carr. Coming from this part of the world I know that Yorkshire men seem to fall into one of two camps, the brash and brassy or the reserved. Chris was definitely in the latter category, a very self deprecating sort of a bloke, such a nice guy that never really saw what the rest of us did, what a truly gifted artist he was. When I first met Chris I was struck by his rather understated sense of humour and then by his skill with an air brush. It was a pleasure seeing him develop as an artist, his later work achieved a photo-realistic quality.
Chris was very much a family man too, I know he thought the world of his wife, Jo, and his son, Noah. He also spoke with great affection about all his family. The turn out at his funeral reflected the great number of friends. It was a very emotional ceremony, “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star”, sung to involve little Noah, brought a lump to many throats. The priest made several very good points: “Do we mourn the loss, or celebrate the life?”, “Are we sad for all the things that were left undone or pleased for all that was achieved?”
All of which is true. I am proud to have known Chris and delighted to have called him friend yet, as an artist myself, when I consider losing Chris at the age of 43, I cannot help but reflect on all the painting he still had left to do…. I will miss my friend.